The 'not to do' list

I'm always writing lists. I can't help it. I think it makes me feel like I'm more in control but, in reality, it probably has the opposite effect.
So, from now on, if I feel I need to write a list, I'm not going to write a 'to do' list, I'm going to write a 'done' list.
Much more satisfying.

And, as my friend Mary told me, "It's important to be proud of what you get done, and peaceful about what you don't get around to."
So true.